There are certain argument that will never have a perfect conclusion or a general consensus on a particular direction of the argument, and one of such is the issue of why a woman’s virginity is considered a more serious issue than that of a man, especially when it comes to marriage.
Yes, often times you hear a young man saying he will only get married to a virgin woman, but hardly have you heard such from a woman. Well, this is the reason for the response from a certain Nigerian lady identified as Ike Ijeaku Rachael. In a social media post made by one Klem Laz, he advised women to keep their virginity till they are married.
He equally posed a question to the ladies, asking them how they will feel if their potential husband demands to know if they are still virgins or not.
In his exact words, “As a lady, how will you feel if a man that wants to marry you asks if you’re a virgin and you aren’t?” He then advised them, “keep your virginity till marriage”.
In a swift response, the aforementioned lady, Ike Ijeaku Rachael, revealed that it is exactly what she’s currently experiencing, as she asked a man who came to marry her if he’s still a virgin and he immediately got angry. Though not bothered about his anger as she made it known to him that she can’t marry a man who’s not a virgin.
“Keep your virginity, we ladies love virgin men. Please am looking for one ooo,” she added.
Funny as this may sound, but that’s the reality on ground in this part of the world, were the female gender are often subjected to some ridiculous virginity scrutiny, where as the male gender are never subject to same treatment. What is good for the goose should equally be good for the gander.